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Where are your circles held?
Most Women's Well circles are held at our center in West
Concord, Massachusetts. We are located near the West Concord
commuter rail stop. A few programs are held
at other locations. When this is the case, it is generally
noted in the course description.
Directions to 120
Commonwealth Avenue, West Concord, MA:
Take Route 2 to the intersection with Route 62
and turn toward West Concord (going west out of Boston, this is a
left). Go through two stoplights and a blinking light. At the
second stoplight, bear right, which will put you on Commonwealth
Avenue. As you approach the train tracks (near Concord Teacakes on the
left and an ATM booth on the right), bear right again to cross the
tracks. Go about one and a half blocks to the building with Starz
Beauty Salon and Jones Upholstery. You can park on the street, or in
any space behind the building where there is no individual name.
There are also trains out of North Station and
Porter Square, Cambridge, that stop just a block from The Women’s Well
space. Check the MBTA Fitchburg Line schedule.
FINDING US: We
are on the second floor, and our
entrance is at the back. As you come in the driveway, our
building will be on your left, with Lawless Upholstery on the ground
floor. Drive straight to the back of the lot and park. Walk towards
Lawless Upholstery and look for our door behind it, in
the corner formed between our building and a small apartment
building attached to it. We have two signs on the sides of the building
and a sign on the door.
How can I register for a class?
Print out the form at this website and complete it; then
mail it to us with your payment. Or, if you have our brochure, you may
complete the form that is included in it.
If a class that you're interested in is imminent, it would be good to
call and speak with the Registrar about whether there are any spaces
available.
When should I sign up?
If space is available, registrations are taken until the
first day of the class. However, most of our classes have
a maximum enrollment and fill up in advance. We encourage
you to sign up early.
How can I talk to someone in your office?
When you leave a message at our automated voice mail number
(978-371-0469), you will soon hear from our Registrar. You can also
email her at info@womenswell.org
Are your classes handicapped-accessible?
Unfortunately, our classroom space is on the second floor of a building
with no elevators. We very much regret that this
makes it inaccessible for some people.
What happens in case of inclement weather?
If a class must be cancelled for any reason, our Registrar will try to
reach enrollees by phone (first) and email. For weather-related
cancellations, we will also leave a message on our phone voice mail.
Is the Women's Well affiliated with any particular spiritual
organization or tradition?
We are not affiliated with any particular spiritual tradition. We
welcome women from all religious and spiritual traditions.
What is the focus of the Women's Well?
While classes at the Women’s Well explore different topics, at our core
is a way of being together – the circle. The circle is our tool for
fulfilling and expanding the Women’s Well mission.
We see the circle as a practice, a technique,
a ritual, based on the principles of power-from-within and power-with,
not power over others. A circle creates sacred space; this is the base
of its power. As ritual, it acknowledges the availability of wisdom and
help from something beyond our human personalities. It is a way of
consciously asking grace to enter. For this to happen, sacred space
needs to be clearly established in each circle. This can be done in
many different ways – using ritual, creating altars, offering blessings
or readings, guided or silent meditation, chanting and singing, sacred
play, movement or dancing. There is no one way to do it. At the Women’s
Well, we welcome each woman’s unique way of acknowledging the
sacredness of our endeavors.
We see the circle as a safe and strong
container for empowerment. Sitting in circle, each place is equidistant
from the center; energy is distributed equally. Council format, an
ancient tool used by native peoples and others, acknowledges this
principle. In council, a talking object is passed, giving each woman a
space in which to speak without interruption. Each person and voice is
invited, given attention and respect.
Council practice involves learning to be
present to ourselves and others, not planning what is said, but letting
speech come out of the truth of the moment. It also involves deep
listening, cultivating an ability to truly hear, to acknowledge without
judgment, and to resist offering quick fixes. Council also values
silence, and acknowledges each person’s right to pass without speaking.
We hold confidential what is said within the sacred circle. This
commitment to confidentiality supports deep and honest sharing. As
women and girls begin to feel safe enough to tell their stories, they
begin to know and trust each other. As the truth of their lives is
spoken, women learn that their narratives are valuable and come to
trust their own inner wisdom.
Finally, we see a circle as a held space.
Although each member contributes to the group’s character, mood and
direction, one or more women take the responsibility for establishing
the parameters, monitoring the energy, inviting the deep speaking and
deep listening, encouraging trust, honesty, and authenticity to grow.
These women are leaders, but not in the hierarchical sense. Power-with
is a movement, a relationship, a fluid and changing balance, and
responsive leadership wields power-with in ways that foster growth. The
goal is to help each woman in the circle, including the facilitator(s),
rest in her own balanced power.
Principles of Holding the Circle
Patience with the Unfolding
No Blame
Enjoy the Process
Deep Listening
Go Slow
Include (Celebrate) Differences
Hold the Intensity
Present Moment
Breathe
Welcome the Unknown
Allow Silence
Truth of Your Experience
The Women's Well programs are not intended to be separative or
exclusive. We seek to contribute to the healing and empowerment
of women and the re-honoring of the feminine in a world out of balance.
What is the history of The Women's Well?
The Women's Well originated in the Women's Spirituality Program of the
Interface Foundation, a center for holistic education in the Boston
area. Between the fall of 1994 and the spring of 1998, four
nine-month-long programs ran at Interface. When Interface closed, the
Women’s Well came into being and offered two further nine-month
circles. In 1999, we also began holding the Circle of Circles, a
monthly gathering open to all women without preregistration.
In the fall of 2000, the organization’s focus
shifted somewhat, and we began to offer a variety of shorter course
offerings, ranging from one evening or one day to multiple sessions.
Soon after, the Women’s Well found its own space, a home base for all
our classes to gather. In 2004, a new nine-month program, the Mystery
School, began. And in 2005 we added regular circles for girls and for
mothers and daughters.
Is the Women's Well a nonprofit organization?
Yes, we are a 501(c)(3)nonprofit organization. Our financial support
comes mainly from donations. Our administration is by a volunteer
council of women.
How can I support The Women's Well?
We welcome all donations, including matching grants from
employers. Checks should be made out to The Women's Well/Uniterra
and mailed to us at P.O. Box 1410, Concord, MA 01742.
If you are interested in volunteering or have a suggestion, please call
our voice mail number at 978-371-0469. The call will be returned by our
Registrar or another appropriate person.
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